Intro to Packing
What is Packing?
Packing refers to the practice of wearing a prosthetic or object in the pants to create a bulge that mimics the appearance of a penis. For some, it’s purely aesthetic; for others, it brings a greater sense of alignment between body and identity.
Types of Packers
There’s no one-size-fits-all when it comes to packing. Here are the most common types of packers:
Soft Packers
These are realistic-looking silicone or foam prosthetics designed for everyday wear. They’re flexible, comfortable, and come in various skin tones and sizes.
Stand-to-Pee (STP) Packers
STPs combine the look of a packer with the ability to stand while urinating. This can be especially affirming in public restrooms. Some STPs double as pack-and-play devices (for intimacy), making them multifunctional.
Pack-and-Play Devices
These packers are designed for both daily wear and sexual activity. They’re generally more rigid, so they may not be the most comfortable for all-day use, but they can be a great multi-use tool.
DIY Packers
If you're not ready to invest in a store-bought packer, some folks start out using socks, foam, or rolled-up fabric. While typically not as realistic in appearance, it’s a low-cost way to try packing.
Packing Methods & Gear
To keep your packer in place and comfortable, consider these tools:
Packing Underwear: Underwear with a built-in pouch designed to hold a packer securely.
Harnesses or Packing Straps: Adjustable fabric harnesses that keep your packer snug and in place.\
DIY Hacks: Some folks use compression shorts or tight boxer briefs as a low-budget option.
Safety & Hygiene Tips
Wash Regularly: Clean your packer (especially silicone ones) according to the manufacturer’s instructions to prevent bacterial buildup.
Skin Sensitivity: Some materials can cause irritation, so opt for body-safe silicone and watch for any signs of chafing.
Don’t Sleep in It (Unless It’s Designed For That): Not all packers are safe for overnight wear, so read up before dozing off.
When & Why You Might Want to Pack
You don’t need to pack to be trans or masculine. But if it helps you feel more affirmed, more confident, or less dysphoric, then it can be a meaningful part of your gender expression.
Here are some reasons people choose to pack:
To alleviate bottom dysphoria
To feel more confident in clothes
For social comfort or safety
As part of sexual exploration or intimacy
Brands to Explore
There are tons of great companies out there creating high-quality, body-safe packing gear. Here are a few of my personal favorites:
Transthetics
New York Toy Collective
Gender Cat
Rodeoh
Do What Feels Right
Packing is deeply personal. It might take time to figure out what feels best for you, and that’s okay. There’s no rush, no right way, and no pressure to do anything outside your comfort zone. Whether you pack occasionally, every day, or not at all—you’re valid.
Got packing tips or product recs you swear by? Drop them in the comments and help your fellow transmasc folks out!
